Yesterday afternoon I met with my
conversation partner from Denmark for the first time. Once again, the weather was beautiful, so
Soren decided that we should sit outside and just “chill.” We chilled on a bench by the Westcott
fountain, talked, and people-watched.
His English is pretty good. When
I was on the phone with him before we met up, I had to repeat a lot of what I
was saying, but talking to him in person went much better. Every now and then he wouldn’t understand a certain
word that I used, so I had to explain it or work my way around it, which helps
him learn new ways to say things. He did
not know what sororities or fraternities were.
He also asked me for help when trying to ask something that he wasn’t
sure how to ask. We went through the
basic questions, and I learned that he’s been in the U.S. for four months and
at CIES for two months. He spent the
first two months traveling in Florida. He
wants to become more fluent in English because, in Denmark, that’s how you
would get a good job. He wants to be
either a pilot for the military or a policeman.
He asked me a lot of questions.
We ended up talking about things to do for fun in Tallahassee, traveling,
religion, American culture, hipsters, politics in the U.S. and Denmark, and
much more. I wasn’t expecting it to get
that deep. He also asked me about racism
in the South because I was born in Alabama and lived most of my life in
Georgia, and that’s what he had associated with that area of the Unites
States. It’s interesting to see his
perspective of the U.S. and other issues.
Another thing that Soren mentioned
is that he has encountered a few people that have been rude or impatient with
him. He said he was walking down the
sidewalk and asked someone a question (to practice his English speaking), and
at first the person completely ignored him, and when he asked again was given a
vague answer and a weird look. I told
him not to be discouraged by that interaction and that most people are friendly
and patient. Like everywhere, there will
be some people that are not as friendly.
I’m excited about hanging out with
Soren again! He’s really nice and seemed
excited to spend some time with me and practice his English. He really put forth a good effort in asking
me questions.
It is good that you told him not to be discouraged. I often tell others not to be discouraged, but to move forward with their goals. I also tell them to make excuses for the ones who acted unkindly. It helps me to feel better about any situation I am in.
ReplyDeleteJodie (I don't have my own account)
Good advice Jodie!
ReplyDeleteWhen I was in Germany this summer, I also got ignored by done people because of my inability to speak German well... it's not a good feeling, poor Soren! It sounds like you had a great and engaging conversation though... Would love to hear how you explained hipsters haha.